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Preparations for Great sex for couples

Best position for mutual orgasm

Clean, wet, slippery and hot. 

Doesn't that sound sexy?

Sure it does,  So make it happen.

Clean:  
Although sharing a shower can be great you might find showering separately it is a good way to give your partner a bit of time to start reading an erotic story instead.  It should be needless to say but if you are at home and you have the time, clean is always a good way to start.

Wet and slippery:

Lube,  That one word says a lot.

For any couple to have great sex consistently, often and sometimes quickly, good lubricant is  essential.

There are  two kinds worth having:

One is a lubricating warming gel for her most sensitive part.  (Her clitoral area)

Two is the conventional KY type of lubricant for creating the slip sliding affect that both partners enjoy.

KY makes some of each but in many drugstores a cheaper generic version might work just as well.

Either partner can apply it, and it is important that either partner offers to apply it.  Don't make it a big deal. Think of it more as a friendly, courteous act than a sexy gesture, applying lube will make the those sexy gestures that come later more likely...

Hot:

This is where those sexy gestures come in.  One great way to start is with a partner kneeling alongside with the concept of a sensual/ sexual massage in mind.  Using your hands and other sensitive  body parts to make contact with the  others sensitive body parts is what it is all about.  

Although there are many variations as the Kama Sutra has illustrated, still there is only one position for consistent mutual orgasm.  With the woman on her back, warm and friendly the man slides down to lay nearly sideways beneath her. Both of her legs may be above his body or one leg may be intertwined with his legs.  This gives the man the chance to do the two most important things for mutual orgasm. 

In this position the man can control his movement and therefore his timing by the degree of stimulation that is right for him and also allows him freedom to use his well-lubed fingers to bring the woman to orgasm at about the same time as his.

If anyone knows of any other position that comes even close to the effectiveness and comfort of that simple one please let me know and I will certainly share it.

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